Relationships in New Earth

💞Relationships in the New Earth

Your relationships are energetic transactions, and in the New Earth Economy, who you allow into your field determines the frequency of your reality. This isn't just romantic partnerships, but business associates, your friends, and the environment you are in. 

In this episode, Jacquelynne unpacks how relationships are evolving beyond outdated ideas of self-sacrifice and the martyrdom of “giving it all for love.” She reveals why self-sacrifice is anti-love, how your energetic standards shape your abundance, and why reciprocal, boundaried the f up connections are essential for healers, leaders, and spiritual entrepreneurs building Heaven on Earth.

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Transcript

 Let's talk about relationships in the new earth economy. So this'll probably be a series, um, because obviously this is such a multifaceted, nuanced conversation that's not just gonna be like completely summed up in one episode. But I think the biggest shift that is kind of ironic. That I'm seeing with the new earth economy.

I think it's ironic because we think spiritual means more free flowing and less grounded and less boundaried up. Um, but actually I think one of the hallmarks of relationships in the new earth economy is going to be. Boundaried, even semit transactional relationships. Um, and again, transactional is something that we have been conditioned to think is bad, but I think that in the new earth economy, we have to be seeing every single relationship for the utility that it provides us.

Not every relationship needs to be. 50 50 or exactly even in what you're giving and what you're receiving, because you're gonna be called to serve people at different times where you need to give 90% in the relationship because that's just the purpose of that particular point in time. Um, but I think when it comes to.

Things like our interpersonal relationships, like um, our significant other business partners, things like that. We have to have these extremely high standards for who we're actually allowing into our energy because who we allow into our energy is who we are becoming, is the frequency of, of who we are and what we absorb.

Like, think about it, just who you're around. How your cells absorb that. Um, you know, you're merging cells with people. And someone recently told me that your, just by being within six feet of someone, your gut microbiome starts to communicate or something like that. Um, so definitely fact check that one.

But, um.

Yeah, like you're actually sharing microbiomes, gut microbiomes with people that you're sharing physical space with. So if that's happening on a biological level, just think of the non perception, you know, think of the energetic realms and the a, your AIC field and um, your energy and how that's being affected.

By who you're around. A lot of this can also be studied in human design as well. But what human design doesn't account for is the, um, frequency of the relationship. So yes, you could be a manifester or a projector that's surrounded by 10 generators and you could tell yourself the story that you are absorbing their.

Conditioning and you need to constantly decondition from their energy centers. Um, or you could see the purpose of you being surrounded by 10 generators and how important it is for you to be a projector in that environment and how that can actually be, um, a relationship that can. Be symbiotic and truly work for everyone where absolutely no one needs to have self-sacrificing or martyrdom energy because self-sacrificing is anti love.

When you are. Prioritizing the care of someone else consistently and persistently over your own wellbeing, that is not love. Um, again, because the paradigm, especially that women have been sold. Through Disney, through the media, through all of the fairytales and stories that we read as a child, we have just been conditioned that there's this, um, this dynamic that we need to give everything for the person that we love.

And, um, I mean, really think about it like. Think, try to think of a Disney movie or any movie where it's not a man coming to save us in a damsel in distress energy. Or the storyline is not the woman completely risking it all for the person that she loves. Like it's like those are the main stories that we're told.

And so of course we have to pay attention to how we're being conditioned by the media. Right? You can see it in the men. Characters in a lot of popular movies where it's like, it's cute and it's cool to like be annoyed at your wife or like, hate that you're married or talk about the burdens of marriage.

So what is that programming in men is that it's socially acceptable and it's actually funny to be that way. So, you know, the, the, the programming or how we're like. How we're actually shaping our day-to-day lives. Really, a lot of times it does come down to our conditioning and when you're turning on a television program or you're running a program in your body or in your mind, it could be completely unconscious, but it's still running.

So. Let's just take that idea that you need to give everything for the person that you love, or that you need to risk it all, or that you need to be saved in some way completely as all these crows fly over. Thank you.

They're having a crow party. So anyways, self sacrifices, anti love. You should be viewing. Your relationships through the scope of what you're receiving from them. And that's why for so many people, um, business relationships and financial relationships are actually easier relationships to navigate than those that don't involve any money.

Um, I've seen it in family dynamics too. Um, where. There's a tendency to want to like work professionally together because that is a better relationship than if there wasn't a business element to the relationship. So, um, very interesting that, um, for a lot of people that actually helps simplify relationships, which again, that's just another program, right?

Because. All that means is that person is deeply connected with the value of their labor and the value of a dollar. And that those two people align on the value of money. Like so, um, like the frequency is so similar, right? So it's just funny how some people have other conditioning, which is around.

They're the money, right? Which is actually a manmade system. So we have to constantly be questioning our relationship with money because at the end of the day, money is just a program as well. Money's just a program that's running out. Through the collective right now, and it's so strong and so embedded into our everyday life that there's pretty much not really a way that it's going to be questioned.

But you can't even say that because look at how many people, um, how many different people have different perceptions of money or have different perceptions of their opportunities. So think about it this way, this is why it's very difficult to be financially successful in an environment where there's a bunch of people that are constantly talking about their own financial scarcity and how hard times are and how they're needing to cut back and how they're pinching pennies.

Um, it's going to be very difficult to be financial, the one financially successful person in a group like that. So that's, that's one. Um, you know, you, you can feel the vibration of that probably. You can feel the energy of that. It's not even from a place, even though that sounds like super pretentious, it's like that's actually not even the place that it's coming from.

It's not from a place of, I think I'm better than you or anything like that. Maybe there is a degree where I have made better financial decisions that have led me to a different financial path, but I'm also humble enough to know that it's like. Stuff can absolutely happen to anyone, so I'm never like, oh, I'm just, I don't hang around the bros, but it's more because it's not effective for my own financial situation.

It's. Simply like bad for my financial situation, and the numbers don't lie around that. So it's actually more of a fact than it is like a feeling that I have, or even like an energetic premise. So again, when something's showing up in the physical like that, it's. The same thing as if you're around a certain friend and then every time you leave you have this massive headache or like you feel super drained and you have to recover and sleep for two days.

Like that is of the physical manifestation of the dissonance, you know, the discord in the relationship. So all of that to say when you're devoted to your business, you're devoted to the work that you're here to do and you know that your energy being on 100 being. Um, as high of a standard as you can hold is super important not only for your personal success, but for the collective work that you're here to do, your healing work, your medicine, your magic, when you know that that requires.

Pristine energy, you have to see your sacrifice of that to other people as anti love. You can no longer see that as, um, a loving transaction because what that's showing you is that person doesn't honor your energy, which again, can be such a new sensation for people because if you're used to relationships where it always has to feel like that, then receiving a reciprocal.

Feedback from a relationship, um, is going to feel different and weird, but you have to pay attention to how your energy continues to rise. So all of that to say that all the relationships point back to your relationship with yourself. How much you're honoring yourself and how much you value your own time and your own energy in whatever form that is.

The energy could be the energy of money. It could be your physical presence. It could be allowing someone to pick your brain every um. Your cup needs to be full. Your cup needs to be reciprocated by others, and it's not just you pouring out to other people. That is going to be, I think, the biggest shift that you'll see for your work and starting to earn more money through your work as well, which is what we need, right?

We need healers, we need people. Em embodied in their magic and embodied in their purpose here on the planet. To lead the way for other people. Um, the spiritual awakening only feels saturated to you because you spend time on Instagram looking at how many other spiritually awakened people there are. But you are like, yeah, it's like.

We really need perspective on how important it is, um, that we are liberating ourselves from the matrix. We are fully in self-expression. We are, um, magnetizing dollars through that energy and through the healing that we're here to do for the collective. Like there is no more important work here to do on the planet because what, what that's doing is that shift.

That's shifting the power over to us. That's shifting the power over to truly heart-centered people. And it's shifting it away from the war mongers and, um, the people that are doing harm to the people on the planet and to the planet itself. So there's a huge importance in the work that we're doing here.

Um, and if you ever doubted that. Now's a nice time to revisit that and start paying attention to if your relationships are draining you and if they are going to serve you in your next iteration and level of service. So as usual, be sure to subscribe and leave a review if this episode impacted you. And also please send me a DM on Instagram if you feel so compelled to let me know what you thought about this episode.

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